Happy New Year - How has your BDSM year been?

I have always found it to be a good exercise to look at things in retrospect,…


The importance of boundaries

I always tell people how important it is to have a boundary discussion before…


The difference between giving up and giving in...

Reaching submission is hard work, even if you are an experienced submissive.…


AllSmiles has been naughty!

AllSmiles has been forced to wear a collar, that I actually padlocked as well.…


Withdrawl -> Frustration -> Disobedience

AllSmiles is prohibited to indulge herself in certain earthly pleasures and…


What do you have in your bag of toys?

Curiosity struck me today as I was doing a mental shopping list that I'm going…


Growing into things - A symbiotic dance

I would like to continue on AllSmiles post about how important the pairing up…


Presenting AllSmiles...

Writing is back on track again as things in RL is getting sorted out. I would…


In For Life - Our new prison sim

I've been looking around in Second Life for prisons, some are better than…


Summary of march discussion group

Once a month we have a discussion group on the Island of Pain in Second Life.…


The journey is the goal

This is the dominant response to CAT's post about stress and I will take a…


How to be a good dominant

I always get the question, how to be a good dom. Let's first start with the…


Am I mean just because I am dominant - Get Real!

My image of myself is quite down to earth, I think. But then again - Who you…