A representation in the local press

It is a week since the international BDSM day and exactly a week ago I made a…


Express your sexuality publicly - The Consideration Manifesto

I believe that everyone has an equal right to express their sexuality in public…


Report from the field - Party impressions

I've attended a few parties now and then and more frequent during the last two…


Fuck Consent!

I try to keep my fingers in different forums to get a feel for the temperature…


Lunds Lekloft - Yet another party!

The local BDSM scene in my area seems to affected by spring feelings and…


Submissives without limits

I am active now and then in a Swedish BDSM forum and yesterday I bumped into a…


What is a good submissive?

I talked to a friend online a couple of weeks ago and she told me that she…


Happy Birthday to us!

The Island of Pain blog has turned one year old, and I was so caught up in…


Better late than never, Kandinsky Beaumont

Things have been busy here, so it has taken me a while to do a response to…


A dose of Saturday ignorance thanks to Kandinsky Beaumont

There are different people in our world and different levels of acceptance, but…


Importance of aftercare

Aftercare is a very important concept within BDSM and an uttermost necessity.…


The difference between giving up and giving in...

Reaching submission is hard work, even if you are an experienced submissive.…


Presenting AllSmiles...

Writing is back on track again as things in RL is getting sorted out. I would…