Fuck Consent!

I try to keep my fingers in different forums to get a feel for the temperature…


Lunds Lekloft - Yet another party!

The local BDSM scene in my area seems to affected by spring feelings and…


Submissives without limits

I am active now and then in a Swedish BDSM forum and yesterday I bumped into a…


Help needed - BDSM clothing advice CONTEST

The summer is approaching and so is the potential amount of BDSM parties, which…


Mind play on the train

As I was riding the morning train to work today I observed a really interesting…


What is a good submissive?

I talked to a friend online a couple of weeks ago and she told me that she…


Second Life and BDSM

We have a mix of people visiting our blog; some are into BDSM in Real Life only…


Vote for us!

We are participating in the Bondage Awards voting which a yearly award given to…


Happy Birthday to us!

The Island of Pain blog has turned one year old, and I was so caught up in…


Better late than never, Kandinsky Beaumont

Things have been busy here, so it has taken me a while to do a response to…


A dose of Saturday ignorance thanks to Kandinsky Beaumont

There are different people in our world and different levels of acceptance, but…


How should a dominant behave towards unowned and owned submissives?

Our discussion group has been revived and it was invigorating to see that…


In For Life is picking up....

By the end of may in 2008 I finished up on building the In For Life sim in…


Importance of aftercare

Aftercare is a very important concept within BDSM and an uttermost necessity.…