Clear safewords are important
It is of utter most importance to have clear and understandable safewords - If…
What is a good submissive?
I talked to a friend online a couple of weeks ago and she told me that she…
Better late than never, Kandinsky Beaumont
Things have been busy here, so it has taken me a while to do a response to…
A dose of Saturday ignorance thanks to Kandinsky Beaumont
There are different people in our world and different levels of acceptance, but…
Importance of aftercare
Aftercare is a very important concept within BDSM and an uttermost necessity.…
The importance of boundaries
I always tell people how important it is to have a boundary discussion before…
Summary of march discussion group
Once a month we have a discussion group on the Island of Pain in Second Life.…
How to be a good dominant
I always get the question, how to be a good dom. Let's first start with the…