I attended the SMiL 30 year anniversary party during the past weekend and I have just one word; success!

Being at a location with about 600 other kink people with all sorts of diversity is pure fun and educating. The party had a high tempo and nice play possibilities. A latex vacuum bed is an interesting thing to watch when people are being placed in it. Cages, crosses and whipping benches and a gynecologist chair were some of the other things that were offered to the guests.

The exhibitionist in me had a field day as there was an abundance of public play taking place and there is always a great satisfaction involved when you get the possibility to watch a well executed public flogging.

The people attending the party were into all sorts of things, uniform fetish, latex sluts, naked submissives and BDSM lifestylers – If you can think it, then you could find it there and it was a very friendly and inviting crowd.

If you stumble upon something that SMiL arranges, then go there – It’s well worth it.


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