A focusing light...

When you are in something that feels like your darkest hours, then it is…


Real Life is giving me a beating at the moment

I will put the writing on hold for a little while as life is giving me a…


The Construction of a BDSM scene - Prelude

This is the second part in my breakdown of a BDSM scene. The first part which I…


Things that make me laugh

This is both a positive and a negative post about BDSM in the press, and I'm…


BDSM toys can be expensive - Or not?

BDSM toys can be really expensive and some expensive toys out there are really…


The difference between BDSM and abuse

I had an interesting discussion with a person the other day where I tried to…


Finally some good things in the media about BDSM

As a try to fulfill Cloud's request about finding some good and positive news…


Does it ever get better?

It is with a big sigh that I read the news, again being connected to BDSM and…


A quite grey day

Some days are better than others, that is a part of life's strange dynamics.…


Summary of march discussion group

Once a month we have a discussion group on the Island of Pain in Second Life.…


The journey is the goal

This is the dominant response to CAT's post about stress and I will take a…


Stress...

Ok, so here's something slut thinks is a debatable subject... Stress! from a…


Essence of Disobedience...

In order to obey my master, Stoltz Sinatra's order I'm writing a piece on the…


What are the risks?

BDSM is on the edge to some people and when it is subject to investigation then…


How to be a good dominant

I always get the question, how to be a good dom. Let's first start with the…


What are the implications of Switching?

We have a monthly discussion group on the Island of Pain and this month's…


Am I mean just because I am dominant - Get Real!

My image of myself is quite down to earth, I think. But then again - Who you…


About coming out

I jumped around on the web for a bit today and stumbled across "Coming out of…