AllSmiles has been forced to wear a collar, that I actually padlocked as well. This was done in order to remind her of the connection she has to her Master. As AllSmiles has admitted to, she is disobedient by nature, which made her do a bratty thing on the blog yesterday.
She changed the textcolor (to red!!) of the blog yesterday to show her anger and disrespect towards her Master – And as she was naughty in such a public way then I think the public should have a say in the choice of punishment that she has to endure.
I have put up a new poll in the sidebar of the blog where you can vote for the most suitable punishment. Throw in your vote – Show AllSmiles what she deserves when she is disobedient. If you have more cruel ideas then tell me them in the comments. Suggestions will be appreciated.
ummm i think Allsmiles should be given lots of chocolate for being naughty – i shall undergo this punishment in Allsmiles place as i feel so strongly about this – ummmm just hope i don’t get punished myself for posting this point of view 🙂
Yes i did get punished – oops ! :)Sorry Master for my disobedience !
… this sub is flummoxed (appalled and startled) that wearing a collar could be a punishment. For me, in SL or RL, wearing a collar is a privilege, a sensual and psychological thrill; for me, losing the privilege of wearing a collar is a serious punishment. However wearing a collar in RL publicly could be also a BIG challenge, especially if an obvious one.
Of course serious and play punishments between a Dom and sub vary as much as pillowtalk jokes 🙂 but to consider some obvious ones…
* Spanking. Hmmm for those of us who LIKE spankings, this might not really discourage naughtiness 😀
* Public displays – but as AllSmiles already speaks Swedish, the torturous possibility of having to speak in public a language with vowells one almost cannot hear is not available – unless – would Navajo or some other language serve? or even kareoke? does AllSmiles sing?
::Cloud gets away from the growing wicked dominant thinking and recalls she too is a sub…::
The more I think about this, the more Delicia’s suggestion of punishment by serious chocolate consumption makes sense. Yep. All forms of chocolate. With whipped cream, for balance. Done correctly, moans could certainly result.
Miss Delicia I will hereby make you my favorite sister in arms! With punishments like that I will make you Herr Stoltz personal adviser 😉
And Master Dane – Punishing this delish Sub of your for having such creative thinking.. not verry nice of you Sir…
Cloud, I have most proudly worn the collar in public but on safe grounds. This time the collar was pad locked on to me without any say in it for me and also in my own private context. Wearing a collar with a padlock in amongst my family, co-workers and friends outside the BDSM context are quite different. And in my mind a punishment since it restrict me in the way that there is people I cant see and things I can not do in fear of having to explain the collar.
And even though I enjoy flogging and the lovely pain from that, when it is done as a punishment it is also recived as one – and then it is all but joyfull. Here the psychology and skills of the Dom is very important – The Dom owns the power to make me feel loved or punished by the same hand and metod, it is all in the way he does it. And I am as you all know under a very skilled Dom.
“The Dom owns the power to make me feel loved or punished by the same hand and [method]…” Yessss, what a succinct eloquent statement; you have given the Dom this power, and you dance together with his lead, build something together under his lead. Yes, the intent and skills of the Dom can transform any word, any touch, any symbol, any sensation, into sensual or psychological pleasure or pain. The consent and submission of the sub participates in this transformation, is critical, for each and both. Isn’t that the essential magic of BDSM? For me, this event or cooperative creation or transmutation fascinates, on so many levels.
I understand better now the context of the particular collar ?exercise? you are experiencing, what a very complex challenge, so many issues from soft and hard limits, symbols, scene/non-scene borders, the unplannable non controllable circumstances which might have to be handled… I sincerely admire the skill, courage, trust, creativity, and experience you (plural) have, to dance such a tango.
Yes, I would say that the pairing up between the two of us make the Tango such a lovely adventure. Though I have to admit a strong admiration for my Herrn 🙂
Herrn purrs as he is feeling the love from his fröken, and returns the love with a big kiss!