BDSM documentary

Public Sex, Private Lives - A Fresh BDSM Documentary

BDSM porn stars have all eyes on therm, but they are human beings as well.…


Coming out as a BDSM practitioner

I Told You I was Freaky...or Just a Normal BDSM Practitioner

How do you come out to people that you care about, how do you tell them you are…


why all the pain?

The Pain That Shouldn't Ever Exist

How often are we honest with ourselves? Our self-esteem and our self-image is…


Mia Rickfors - Emmanuelle's replacement

Emmanuelle's Replacement Remembers Her Friend

The Swedish actress Mia Rickfors, 53, took over after Sylvia Kristel in…


BDSM always involves a risk

BDSM — A Dependency Between Knowledge & Experience

Jay Wiseman has for many years debated about the dangers of the advanced breath…


BDSM Discipline Strap or Support Your BDSM Artisan

Dagaz86 on Twitter contacted me about a week ago. He wanted me to take a peek…


Reaction Space - A Necessary Paradigm Shift in BDSM

Within the BDSM community we often talk about different forms of space, when…


Fifty Shades of Grey Baby Clothes

Fifty Shades of Grey has Grabbed My BDSM Balls

Fifty Shades of Grey has become a phenomenon all over the world, it's basically…


Femdom meets porn

When Femdom Meets Porn

Femdom is a large part of BDSM and it allows you to turn the traditional gender…


International BDSM Day 2012 - Why should you care?

It's that time of the year again, the International BDSM Day is coming up -…


A Reason For My Silence

There are periods in your life when you need to be silent, there are periods in…


sex_injuries_BDSM

A Detailed Look at Sex Injuries

BDSM sometimes involve causing injuries to your partner, based on consent of…


The Effects of Outing Yourself on TV

I wrote a post last spring that I would take part in a  national TV show about…


Rethink Breast Cancer

Rethink Breast Cancer - Your Man Reminder

This post isn't about BDSM, it's about something totally different. It's about…


Interesting Sources for Punishment when doing BDSM

There's a lot of interesting material on the web about BDSM, some writings are…


What Does True Submission Mean?

A while ago Master Stoltz asked me a question - what does true submission mean…


Greetings to all Island Readers

Hello A/all My Name is adilliana and I am a submissive. I am one of Master…


Second Life BDSM & a New Writer

I haven't written about Second Life BDSM for some time, the reason for that is…


A Letter to the Worried Dominant

Dear worried Dominant Do you feel uncomfortable when you do things to your…


BDSM Quote of the Day

  "It's hard to blow your nose with a butt plug in"  — Unknown  …