Where Do You Start With BDSM Part 2 - BDSM Books For You

I mentioned in my post, Where Do You Start With BDSM - Books are Good For You,…


Where Do You Start With BDSM Part 1 - BDSM Books Are Good For You

I've always told people who want to learn things about BDSM, get in touch with…


Facebook Killer in Jail - What Can We Learn From This?

Rapist and muderer Peter Chapman was online friends with more than 6,000 women…


The Importance of Mistakes - BDSM Processing 101

I had an online conversation the other day with a person about mistakes. To cut…


Make It Easier To Swallow

Giving a blow job might be in a submissives chores in order to give pleasure to…


BDSM Educational Videos On The Web - Good Or Bad?

I'm always a little bit mixed when it comes to BDSM educational stuff on the…


Dominance 101 - Dominance Explained With The Help of A Classroom Metaphor

Sometimes I get people asking me how they can become a good Dominant. There is…


Masking Fetish Revisited

Marc Felion over at Chicago Now has written a short question about masking…


Mistress Exercise Class

It could be good to attend this class if you want to burn of some calories…


Clear safewords are important

It is of utter most importance to have clear and understandable safewords - If…


Petplay 101 - A beginning

Petplay is one, very interesting part, within the wide spectrum of BDSM…


Bootlicking is Music for My Sole

Bootlicking is sometimes seen as something as you either love or hate, there is…


Electroplay video sharing

I just have to share this - Not "true" electroplay, but it includes a TENS and…


Lunds Lekloft - Yet another party!

The local BDSM scene in my area seems to affected by spring feelings and…


Big BDSM party on the 16th of May

SMil Party in Copenhagen Attention, all you scene people in Scandinavia - SMiL…


Help needed - BDSM clothing advice CONTEST

The summer is approaching and so is the potential amount of BDSM parties, which…


Kink.com starts The Upper Floor

The Upper Floor in action Kink.com - Our personal favorite kink provider on the…


Mind play on the train

As I was riding the morning train to work today I observed a really interesting…


What is a good submissive?

I talked to a friend online a couple of weeks ago and she told me that she…


Second Life and BDSM

We have a mix of people visiting our blog; some are into BDSM in Real Life only…