Something is brewing in the kingdom of Sweden

Something really interesting has happened here in Sweden – BDSM and the…


As a sub you should be able to trust...yourself?

I had some time on my hands the other day and I started to think about the very…


A representation in the local press

It is a week since the international BDSM day and exactly a week ago I made a…


To out oneself through a birthday cake

My birthday cake that outed me to my friends I don't like to sneak around with…


Express your sexuality publicly - The Consideration Manifesto

I believe that everyone has an equal right to express their sexuality in public…


Report from the field - Party impressions

I've attended a few parties now and then and more frequent during the last two…


Fuck Consent!

I try to keep my fingers in different forums to get a feel for the temperature…


Lunds Lekloft - Yet another party!

The local BDSM scene in my area seems to affected by spring feelings and…


Submissives without limits

I am active now and then in a Swedish BDSM forum and yesterday I bumped into a…


Big BDSM party on the 16th of May

SMil Party in Copenhagen Attention, all you scene people in Scandinavia - SMiL…


Kink.com starts The Upper Floor

The Upper Floor in action Kink.com - Our personal favorite kink provider on the…


Is BDSM a competition?

Competitions within BDSM? LordSir Ninetails inspired me to write this post as…


What is a good submissive?

I talked to a friend online a couple of weeks ago and she told me that she…


In For Life 2 has opened!

In For Life 2 We have been busy bees over the last couple of weeks as our…


Happy Birthday to us!

The Island of Pain blog has turned one year old, and I was so caught up in…


Show me some more collars

Collar from Rings of Steel As I have written before - Collars are, to me at…


Better late than never, Kandinsky Beaumont

Things have been busy here, so it has taken me a while to do a response to…


Beautiful Collars for everyday use

Eternity collar Collars are often used in a BDSM context and some people use…


A dose of Saturday ignorance thanks to Kandinsky Beaumont

There are different people in our world and different levels of acceptance, but…


Importance of aftercare

Aftercare is a very important concept within BDSM and an uttermost necessity.…