Help needed - BDSM clothing advice CONTEST

The summer is approaching and so is the potential amount of BDSM parties, which…


Kink.com starts The Upper Floor

The Upper Floor in action Kink.com - Our personal favorite kink provider on the…


Mind play on the train

As I was riding the morning train to work today I observed a really interesting…


Is BDSM a competition?

Competitions within BDSM? LordSir Ninetails inspired me to write this post as…


What is a good submissive?

I talked to a friend online a couple of weeks ago and she told me that she…


Happy Birthday to us!

The Island of Pain blog has turned one year old, and I was so caught up in…


Show me some more collars

Collar from Rings of Steel As I have written before - Collars are, to me at…


Better late than never, Kandinsky Beaumont

Things have been busy here, so it has taken me a while to do a response to…


A dose of Saturday ignorance thanks to Kandinsky Beaumont

There are different people in our world and different levels of acceptance, but…


How should a dominant behave towards unowned and owned submissives?

Our discussion group has been revived and it was invigorating to see that…


Importance of aftercare

Aftercare is a very important concept within BDSM and an uttermost necessity.…


The importance of boundaries

I always tell people how important it is to have a boundary discussion before…


Be careful what you wish for...

So, I have been exploring the switch side of me and in that exploration I found…


The greater good of BDSM

So, why do we all bother with all this work, pain and confusion? The answer is…


The difference between giving up and giving in...

Reaching submission is hard work, even if you are an experienced submissive.…


Getting used and abused, not loved

So now I am lost for words! Just red a blog from a 18 year old schoolgirl…


Todays question: Do I really need to be a bitch to be dominant?

So yesterday I wondered on the soft side of being Domme. Do I really need to be…


The safe words goes two ways

As the BDSM journey progress deeper and deeper in pushing boundaries and…


Getting too sure of oneself

As a BDSM partnership progress you get quite sure of yourself and each other.…


AllSmiles has been naughty!

AllSmiles has been forced to wear a collar, that I actually padlocked as well.…