Journal Entry #6 - When Germs Bite You in the Ass

Urge is a funny thing sometimes. I've had a bad virus for about 4 weeks now…


Facebook Killer in Jail - What Can We Learn From This?

Rapist and muderer Peter Chapman was online friends with more than 6,000 women…


Journal Entry #5 - Keep Your Attention on the Cock

Contextualizing is important, it's a way to understand and relate to what you…


Make It Easier To Swallow

Giving a blow job might be in a submissives chores in order to give pleasure to…


Journal Entry #1 - Reboot Of The Dominant

BDSM relationships are never easy, maybe all relationships are complex, but…


And So The Journal Begins...

I had a interesting conversation with "someone" a couple a days ago and…


Dominance 101 - Dominance Explained With The Help of A Classroom Metaphor

Sometimes I get people asking me how they can become a good Dominant. There is…


What are the responsibilities in a BDSM relationship?

We have a reader who sent us a question about responsibilities in a BDSM…


Nipple torture 101 - A Clamp guide

A Tweezer Clamp Everyone usually has a pair of nipples and they can be the…


Something is brewing in the kingdom of Sweden

Something really interesting has happened here in Sweden – BDSM and the…


As a sub you should be able to trust...yourself?

I had some time on my hands the other day and I started to think about the very…


A representation in the local press

It is a week since the international BDSM day and exactly a week ago I made a…


To out oneself through a birthday cake

My birthday cake that outed me to my friends I don't like to sneak around with…


Express your sexuality publicly - The Consideration Manifesto

I believe that everyone has an equal right to express their sexuality in public…


Report from the field - Party impressions

I've attended a few parties now and then and more frequent during the last two…


Fuck Consent!

I try to keep my fingers in different forums to get a feel for the temperature…


Lunds Lekloft - Yet another party!

The local BDSM scene in my area seems to affected by spring feelings and…


Submissives without limits

I am active now and then in a Swedish BDSM forum and yesterday I bumped into a…


Big BDSM party on the 16th of May

SMil Party in Copenhagen Attention, all you scene people in Scandinavia - SMiL…